Feminism

I'm not a big fan of -isms, but one of the worst isms out there has to be feminism. Women should be women, and not pretend to be men. This is also why I think the name feminism is ironically misplaced, like christianity of today has got nothing to do with the teachings of Jezus. Not that it did in the past; christianity is one of the main religions that was very soon to be corrupted by people who wanted to use it as a vessel to strengthen their power structure.

Why is it, that one of the biggest christian communities exist in North America, where racism is abundant, and people have little to no tolerance towards ideas and beliefs that are not in accordance with theirs? It is easy to bear love and compassion to those close to you, but even that is not real love and compassion, because it is conditional. The moment those persons close to you do something which is not in accordance with the picture you painted of them, the love and compassion is gone.

Jezus is not to be worshipped; he was just a vessel of the qualities he inbibed, which ought to be respected. It's not about the man, it's about his qualities. He who said to God as he got nailed to the cross and stabbed to death "Father forgive them, for they do not know what they're doing" was an example of love and compassion. That ideology was soon to be perverted. I mean, who started the crusades, and for what reason? It's all business and politics.

The one person who was actually living in accordance with the qualities of Christ, was blamed of horrible crimes, which are in fact committed by those who pretend to be living in accordance with the Bible. I'm talking of course, about Michael Jackson. He was our black Jezus, and it's guys like the pope who should be nailed to the cross, symbolically, else I wouldn't be very credible after what I just wrote.

But let's not get side tracked too much; this is about feminism. Feminism has got nothing to do with feminine qualities. It's simply women trying to be men, which is quite unattractive. Some girls say "I would rather be a guy, cause it's a man's world", but they just fail to see what makes women so beautiful. Cause the fact is, there would be no man's world without women. The real reason why it appears to be a man's world is because men have ego, much more than women at any rate, and women feel we should be kept in that harmless fantasy.

One of the Hindu deities, Shiva, a very powerful character, had a wife who was even more powerful than him. But she never told him, because she respected his ego. Men need ego in order to function; to live with values, to get things done. Of course ego can be as much a weakness as it can be strength. It is miserable men who's egos are a source of weakness without strength, macho men who's egos are a source of strength and weakness, and it's the wise men who's egos are a source of strength without weakness.

A few days ago I was listening to this audio book of a guy named Badboy, a pickup artist. Very interesting stuff, although I didn't agree with everything. For example, he said that men are the stronger sex, and therefore need to give women their sense of security. Now I understand why this appears to be the case. After all, our society does it's best to make women feel insecure, to put them in a position where nothing is ever right. They are almost forced into sexuality at young age, because of brainwashing in TV and the internet, and at the same time are constantly judged for what they do.

Rappers talk about 'ho's' and 'bitches' like they're just expendable assets. The pornography found on television, in music videos, on the internet, in magazines, all add to that belief. It's all bullshit. You wanna know what is one major cause of our sick society? It's the complete delerious idea of sexuality that we have nowadays. The complete absence of appreciation for women.

When you take that into account, it makes sense in a way that there's such a thing as feminism; women think "they don't like women, so let's just be men then". So I understand the struggle ladies, nothing but compassion for you. However, being independent is not the same as pretending to be a man, or being hard to get. Why do girls act hard to get? Because they don't want to be judged for being easy.

But shouldn't it be easy? We are fooling ourselves. It is easy. All it takes is consciousness. I remember I saw this movie sometime ago, Pride and Prejudice (the latest version or so), I loved it, and I could've fallen in love with that woman. She was so feminine, and at the same time so independent. Of course she was pretty, but it was her character that did it for me. Not hard to get, but standing for what she believes in, and most importantly, not let fear guide your actions.

You see, playing hard to get is just insecurity, it's fear for the judgment of others. That doesn't mean you should get it on with every guy who approaches you, but it does mean there's no need to give the guy you want a hard time. I was thinking today of the perfect romance. Imagine you go to the club, see this girl, and the moment your eyes make contact you know, you both know. You can see she's sensitive and aware, you walk up to her, and without saying a word, you kiss.

If I would rate intimacy in different stages, I would say that the highest levels of intimacy are the kind where speaking is unnecessary. How beautiful it would be to have this kind of intimacy on first eye contact, to have this open mind, clarity, sensitivity and awareness is in itself a reason to think you found the perfect partner, so why not just kiss right away? Afterwards you would take her home, make love, lay in each other's arms; all without saying a word.

I couldn't picture a more romantic night. So women: Don't be afraid to be a woman, be happy about it, you're deeply appreciated.